Hi, I’m Lori
I’m here to help you say “Yes” to yourself.
This is the single most important aspect of my life and work.
Why is this important to me?
For the first 35 years of my life I said “no” to myself. It started early.
I grew up in a single-parent household on welfare and food stamps, and inherited the archetypes of the victim and silent child right from the get-go. A pattern of abuse started early and continued through my early adult hood. The message that I heard over and over, is that I didn’t matter – what I felt didn’t matter, what I wanted didn’t matter, and what I needed did not matter. Life seemed to continually say “NO” to me, so “No” became my unconscious mantra.
In my late 20’s life got much better until I went through an abrupt and traumatic divorce. I hit a new bottom. I finally had enough at putting other people – especially authority figures and men – before me.
It took a long time but I finally got it: who I was and what I valued and what I wanted and what I needed did matter. I mattered – like more than anything or anybody else. That was quite a paradigm shift.
I sensed there was an honorable, truthful, and fulfilling way to live. I wanted that for me, and for my children. I was desperate for it.
Traditional and nontraditional therapies helped me see the negative patterns in my life but it was only when I learned how to honor my truth and intrinsic wisdom, that my life transformed.
Most importantly – after a lifetime of denying my anger, I allowed myself to feel it. I learned that anger is a powerful healing force – a force that can transform a woman’s life – in a liberating, truthful, and honorable way.
I finally learned how to say “Yes!” to myself.
I know too many women who are still being oppressed by others, and by themselves. And I know how to help them. This is my “why”.
Today I live my dream life.
I am the author of Anger 101: The Healthy Approach to Being a Bitch and an award winning and TEDx professional speaker. I am a certified life coach through International Coach Federation. I have a scientific background with extensive on-the-ground experience that I combine with my intuitive gifts of Claircognizance, Clairaudience, Clairsentience, ClairEmpathy, and Clairvoyance.
My life’s mission grants freedom to you as a women to honor what you value, be your own best advocate, and love yourself without guilt. My vision is a new world power-digm of freedom, where women are authentic, visionary, and powerful leaders; where victimization in thought, word, and deed is non-existent; and women are free to live an honorable life without political/cultural/familial fear based restrictions and oppression.
I help women grant themselves the freedom to live life on their own terms, honor their inner truth, and love themselves – all without guilt.
I help women say “Yes” to themselves. And I want to help you!
If you are a woman who is ready for truth, honor, and the freedom to live life on your own terms, contact me and we’ll get started right away.
If you are an event organizer or community leader looking for a professional speaker who will engage the female members of your community to experience their unique and powerful abilities, contact me. Women are visionaries and when they connect to their inherent abilities with confidence and collaboration, your organization benefits and so does your bottom line. I love professional speaking; it’s how I do my most powerful work. Contact me and let’s make it happen!
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